Returning to work after maternity or parental leave in BC is one of the most logistically demanding transitions parents face. You’re managing your return-to-work timeline, your child’s readiness, the subsidy application, the daycare search, and your own emotional adjustment — simultaneously. This checklist guides you through the process in order, with specific BC context including ACCB timelines, notice requirements, and what to do when childcare and your return date don’t align. For Smiling Kids Coquitlam: daycare Coquitlam | infant daycare Coquitlam. Call 604-600-4393.
Timeline: When to Start Each Step
6 Months Before Return-to-Work Date
- ☐ Confirm your return date with your employer. Your BC Employment Standards Act entitlement is clear (16 weeks standard + up to 18 additional weeks for extended parental leave), but your actual return date depends on your specific leave start date and elections. Get this confirmed in writing.
- ☐ Start the daycare search immediately. Licensed infant care in Coquitlam has waitlists. 6 months is not too early — for infants starting at 4-6 months (the most popular age), spots at quality licensed centres fill significantly in advance. How to choose a licensed daycare in Coquitlam.
- ☐ Tour at least 3 licensed centres. In-person visits tell you things no website can: the noise level, how educators interact with children in unscripted moments, whether the space feels calm and organised, how staff respond to your questions.
- ☐ Add your name to waitlists. Most licensed centres in Coquitlam accept waitlist registrations. Add your name to multiple centres — accepting a spot doesn’t obligate you, but losing your position does cost you options.
4 Months Before Return-to-Work Date
- ☐ Confirm enrollment at your chosen centre. You typically need to sign an agreement and pay a deposit to secure your spot. Read the agreement carefully — note the notice period for withdrawal, the fee schedule, and the policies on absent days.
- ☐ Apply for ACCB (Affordable Child Care Benefit). ACCB processing takes 2-4 weeks in most cases, but can take longer during high-demand periods. Apply as early as possible after confirming enrollment. You’ll need: your most recent Notice of Assessment (or CRA portal confirmation of income), your child’s BC health number, and your daycare’s licence number and confirmation of enrollment. Full ACCB eligibility guide 2026.
- ☐ Confirm CCFRI participation with your centre. Ask directly: “Do you participate in CCFRI?” The fee you’ll pay should be the post-CCFRI rate. CCFRI BC 2026 explained.
6–8 Weeks Before Return-to-Work Date
- ☐ Schedule the settling-in process with your centre. The settling-in process (5 days minimum) needs to be completed before your first full return-to-work day. Plan this to finish at least 1 week before your start date — this gives buffer for repeat settling days if needed and for your child to stabilise.
- ☐ If breastfeeding: introduce the bottle NOW. If your baby will receive breast milk at daycare, start bottle introduction 4-6 weeks before the daycare start date. Do not leave this to the last week. Full preparation guide.
- ☐ Prepare your daycare bag and label everything. Full change of clothes × 3, diapers and wipes (or confirm with centre), soother in labelled container, expressed milk supply. Label EVERYTHING with your baby’s full name.
2 Weeks Before Return-to-Work Date
- ☐ Do the settling-in process. Day 1: parent stays full session. Day 2: first separation (30 min). Day 3: up to 2-3 hours. Day 4: half day including sleep. Day 5: near-full day. If any day goes very poorly, repeat it — this is not a fixed schedule, it’s a minimum.
- ☐ Build in your own buffer. Do not schedule your first back-to-work day for the morning after the last settling day. Give yourself 2-3 days post-settling before you actually need to be at work on time. Drop-off distress in week 2-3 can be intense and unpredictable.
When Your Return Date and Daycare Start Date Don’t Align
The most common problem: daycare spot becomes available 6 weeks before your return date, or 2 weeks after. Solutions:
- Spot available before you need it: Take it. Pay for the spot even if your child isn’t attending full-time yet. Use this time to complete the settling-in process at your own pace, without work pressure.
- No spot available by your return date: Ask your employer whether you can request a further 1-4 week delay in your return date, or work reduced hours temporarily. Check whether you are entitled to additional unpaid leave under BC’s Employment Standards Act.
Frequently Asked Questions — Back to Work Mat Leave BC Childcare
How early can my baby start licensed daycare in BC?
Most licensed infant daycares in BC accept babies from 3 months (12-16 weeks). BC’s standard mat leave is 16 weeks (extended to up to 18 months with parental leave sharing) — meaning many families are looking for care starting around 4-6 months. Start the search by 6 months gestation or immediately after birth for care starting before 6 months.
Can I get ACCB before I return to work?
Yes. ACCB eligibility is based on household income and enrollment, not employment status at the time of application. Apply as soon as you have an enrollment confirmation from your licensed daycare — you do not need to have returned to work.
Related Reading
Full ACCB guide: ACCB childcare BC — what it is and how to apply.


